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Using the Power of the Crown to be a Voice

So far, one of my favorite parts about being Mrs. Illinois International has been the amazing and inspiring people I've met. In my past experience of being a professional dancer, we were often the connection between the crowd and the team; an ambassador, if you will. Fans would often tell us their stories and invite us to their charity events so we could support them and their cause. I'm so excited to see pageantry is very similar in that we are also invited to support causes that are so important to people who want to make a difference. I am often told stories in hopes that I will share and be a voice for them. That is something that I take very seriously and that I am honored to do. I have heard our year as title holders be referred to as a "year of service." I truly feel I was given this gift for a reason and I am so very thankful for that. 

It's a satisfying feeling to be a part of something bigger than yourself. It's not all about me ...I first learned that when I became a wife and I had my son. I sometimes see and hear others say, "I have done this, I have done that..." but, not actually see or hear the story behind why you are there in the first place. It's so much more than that. It's an amazing feeling to know that my personal growth and journey as a title holder has crossed paths with other peoples' personal journeys with healing, raising awareness, and inspiring others. I think the saying, “Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. So be kind always!" is a perfect way to describe it. 



The past couple of weeks I was blessed to have attended two events that had a lasting impression on me. The first was the Whitney Reynolds Show Gala that benefited The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. I met so many amazing and kind-hearted people. Whitney absolutely being one of those people herself. I also met Gwendolyn Westlund. She is a true survivor with a story of positivity and strength. Having gone through cancer, multiple cardiac surgeries, and a heart transplant, she now has made it her mission to educate others on how giving blood, something so simple, can save a life.

To learn more about Gwendolyn and how you can save a life please visit www.LifeSource.org/Gwendolyn


The month of April is a month to raise awareness for many important causes. One cause in particular is Prevention of Child Abuse. Abuse of children is the worst form of bullying I can think of. I was approached by the family of Christopher Valdez at the #WeExist event at Daley Plaza. As his aunt told me his story, I couldn't help but visibly show how my heart was broken as she explained to me everything he went through - and all that they go through just to be his voice.  They have now made it their mission to educate and raise awareness to prevent this from happening to other children. 
To learn more about Christopher and how you can join the movement to protect more young lives please visit http://www.angelizdsplace.com/child158.htm and https://www.facebook.com/christophervaldez.childabuseawareness




These brave people tell their stories. They show they are fighters and that they want to help others do the same...  To me, they are true heroes. I was inspired after meeting them to do more than just show my support by attending these events. Social media is a very powerful tool these days so I decided I wanted to create an album of "Inspiring People I Meet." I want to share their stories and introduce them to everyone I meet.

Throughout my journey this year, I will be sharing stories that are sometimes hard to hear- but, they are meant to inspire, heal, and empower. I know you will be as moved and as inspired as I am... 

Until next time... 

"Be Kind. Make a Difference."
Mrs. Illinois International 2016


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